Customers having issues with Nite Flirt
I appreciate everyone who has stuck with me through the Nite Flirt fiasco. A few of you have contacted me with several issues. I'm happy to assist in any way I can from this side of the problems.
ACCOUNTS: If you are missing funds from your account, or are blocked out of your account, or did not receive a refund or credit for a particular situation, let me know and I will contact customer service for you.
CUSTOMER SERVICE: At this time, there is no Customer Service phone number - only an email. This seems to be a new trend among website companies. They don't want to waste time or money on Phone Service to customers plus they do not have to listen to customers bitch. All you can do is send an email and hope they email back.
REPEATED BUSY SIGNAL: If you try to call me and get a repeated busy signal (trust me, calls are not that busy), then please email me and let me know. After some calls, especially those when customers are trying to add money to their accounts or another call tries to beep through, the system automatically sets our buttons to BUSY or AWAY without us knowing. Again, please let me know.
ADDING MORE MONEY: If you get disconnected when you try to add more money during a call, please let me know so I can pass it on to customer service. Each of these glitches have to be repaired before Nite Flirt will pay us for the errors on calls in the system.
DISCONNECTS: If your call is getting disconnected during the call, let me know. On our end, we just assume you shot your load and hung up. If your call is disconnected before you speak to a flirt, let me know.
EMAILS: If you try to email me at Nite Flirt and have difficulties, just use my private email at ladylila@sbcglobal.net
PAY-TO-VIEWS and DOWNLOADS and TRIBUTES: Nite Flirt is having an abundance of problems with each of these. In fact, some of us know customers downloaded and paid for some mails and attachments but the Flirts (us) were not paid for it. If you've ordered anything and paid for it via email, please let me know so I can see whether I was paid for it or not by Nite Flirt. It seems tributes are having a really bad time being paid as well as paid emails. It may be preferable to use an alternative method of payment for these items until this is straightened out, see below:
ALTERNATE PAYMENT OPTIONS: You can pay for any Paid Emails, Pay-To-View Emails, Tributes, Slave Penalties, Lessons or Assignments, Contracts, Sissy or Trance Aids, Downloads, etc., through an Amazon.com Gift Card. Please note that the Gift Card can take 24-48 hours to arrive, but your item will be sent out immediately upon it's arrival. Just state in an email to me, what you would like to purchase with the Gift Card. Same goes for calls if the Nite Flirt system is not working. I have my own Toll Free number you can use, and you can pay with an Amazon.com Gift Card. Again, the call can only happen if the Gift Card is already in my possession.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Things are looking up
Decisions
NEW HOME: We've purchased a smaller home in Las Vegas under one of my slave's names and are in the process of moving in. My slave will precede me there and do some repairs and upgrades to the home over the next three months. It's much smaller than I am use to, but also a lot less to deal with on the mortgage and utilities. I'm trying to cram five bedrooms/3 baths plus a country kitchen and additional den into a three bedroom/2 bath, no den, small kitchen. It's been crazy deciding what to keep and what to let go. I hate the Vegas traffic and crime. Plus, I don't like the location which is a high crime area (but all of Las Vegas is, so what the hell), but I had to acquire something very close to my elderly parents whom I'm helping out right now. I'm sinking a lot of money into security for it including wrought-iron security panels for all windows and doors, and a Brinks Home Security System. It doesn't have a garage, so we are installing a drive-through gate to the backyard which is fenced, and pouring concrete for the drive-through. Can any of you give me any security tips or ideas to make it safer? I know you want your Mistress to be as safe as possible.
VANILLA FUN WITH FOOD & MOVIES: I'm looking at the advantages to living in Vegas though. I absolutely love going to the movie theaters, eating out at excellent restaurants, and shopping for exclusive and specialty items. Vegas is certainly the place for that. A good place to find me on weekends is the Town Square on Las Vegas Blvd. They have the best movie theater in Vegas plus hundreds of shops and restaurants all located in one square mile. In the evenings (and other times), they have nightly special events, especially at the bars and dance clubs in the venue. Some of the best food and service I've enjoyed have been at the Yard House restaurant and bar. It's always packed, but let that scare you away. The service is still impeccable and fast. The Yard House is an upscale-casual eatery known for its extensive menu, classic rock music, and world’s largest selection of draft beer. Each Yard House location features a transparent keg room containing more than 400 barrels, some 1,000 gallons of beer, and an endless fleet of tap handles — 100 to 250 depending on the location. The menu of American Fusion cuisine includes an impressive selection of appetizers, salads, pastas, sandwiches, individual-size pizzas, seafood, steaks, ribs and chops. I personally love the Asian appetizers and ribs. Every appetizer we have ordered has been exceptional and delicious. I also love eating at the Kabuki Japanese Restaurant near the Rave theaters. Again, the service is overwhelmingly impeccable (seeing a theme here? *grin*). Mistresses love good service. When you walk into Kabuki, you won’t be overwhelmed with Asian decor or music. What you will encounter is a casual atmosphere with modern music playing and people smiling. Mostly it's a yuppie upscale place. But, hey, Mistress loves Sushi and can't help downing a little hot Sake.
NEW YEAR'S EVE, MEET ME: Even though I'll now be living in Vegas instead of Mesquite, I will still be receiving some casino comps from a nice caller. He has already made my reservations for the New Year's Eve Party at Excalibur. I'll be there from Wednesday, December 30, 12 noon, to Saturday, January 2, 11 am. I'll be attending the New Year's Eve Party with a friend of mine (Mistress Rana), and our two top slaves. It will be an excellent opportunity for some of you to see how slaves interact and are displayed when in attendance to a Mistress in public. If you would like to look for during the holidays, request my Rules for Public Meetings or read them in previous posts. Due to the move and holidays fast approaching, this will probably be my only outing until after the first of the year around Valentine's Day.
GAY AND TRANNY CLUBS: Another bonus to living in Vegas is having access to the Gay and Tranny hang outs, which quite a few of my callers, slaves, and lifestyle friends enjoy. The Vegas areas for this type of fun are Commercial Center and the Fruit Loop *lol*. I didn't make that up, that is what it is really called. Commercial Center is located on the southwest corner of Maryland Parkway and Sahara. It contains Hank's Gym which is a favorite male gay bath house in Vegas. It's billed as a "private men's social club" and reviews say it's men only so don't show up in drag (women's clothes), Fridays and Saturdays from 11pm-5am are the busiest times, lots of hot guys but also some freaks and trolls, staff is great and the men are sex pigs, one man says he can usually hook up three time sin one evening, another says he was stuffed with cum and never had so much fun in his life. It's a definite for my gay callers to check out. You'll find your gay cowboys at the Badlands Saloon and your leathermen at the Spotlight Lounge. On the backside of Commercial Center on Karen Street, you'll find your tranny bar called the Las Vegas Lounge - this place is for transgendered and those who admire them. Tranny go-go dancers appear most nights of the week. This is also a place for the 'pros' to gather and it's a little on the seedy side but I know some of you like that. Reviews about the Lounge say the place is kind of dumpy, the best time to be there is early am around 1-2am when the amateurs and newbies come around, quite a few pros hang out there and will charge newcomers out the ass, and sometimes there are amazing looking TGs. Nearby, on E. Tropicana you'll find the Las Vegas Eagle bar which also hosts your leathermen. Who doesn't like a hot man in leather? In the Fruit Loop, an area from Harmon to Tropicana on Paradise Road, hosts Club Menage and Gypsy's which have been icons for the Fruit Loop. You may find some of the Fruit Loop offerings are tainted by cliques where visitors tend to be treated anywhere from barely nice to rude, so just take your chances and enjoy the view at these clubs.
HETERO SEX CLUBS: Vegas is also known for its sex clubs and prostitution. Prostitution abounds from street walkers to call outs (escort services in the phone book and flyers). Even though prostitution is illegal in Vegas, it gets by abundantly. Hookers patrol the Strip hotels and Strip side walks, and Tropicana just off the Strip, west bound, is considered Hooker Row. It's not unusual to see hookers in the parking lots of the hotels giving blow jobs in parked cars. Prices range from $40 (blow job from sleaze drug addict hooker) to $200+ for a handjob from an escort (in addition to her hourly charge for just "escorting"). The town is also sprinkled with Asian massage parlors, and yes, according to my callers who go to them, they do give hand and blow services for a nice tip (usually around $40-$80 after the massage payment of $60 to $100, but what the hell, they massage "everything"). And then there is the Sex Clubs which usually have an admit fee ranging from $20 to $200 for men, women are usually free, but prices depend on whether you act like a tourist or a local. You can try the Red Rooster in far E. Tropicana (but it takes a little special knowledge to purchase entrance and find them. On weekends they are pretty crowded with 100-200 people at a time sucking, blowing and enjoying the orgy room. According to some of my friends, crossdressers are not welcomed. So keep it straight. The price is anywhere from $20-$200 for men depending on whether you seem to know what you are doing or are form out of state. But it is one of the better sex clubs in Vegas. You'll also find several Sex Clubs in the Commercial Center listed above, along side the gay clubs. These include Fantasy Social Club, usually $40 for couples $60 for men, women alone are free; and the Green Door, usually $50 for couples $60 for men, $10 for single women, with special prices for slow nights; and a small Red Rooster outlet, not nearly as nice as the Tropicana version, but couple admission is $10-$20, men $50, single women free, depending on the night you choose. I've been to these clubs and most times mid-week they are dead empty, so choose a weekend night. If you want more information or details about the pricing, dungeon availability, kink, or inside action, just email me ladylila@sbcglobal.net and I'll send you some links.
FORECLOSING MESQUITE HOME: Now that the decision has been made to let my current home go, some of my personal stress has been lifted. Nite Flirt's upgrade timing came at the very worst time possible for many people including me. Just imagine, your only income source is your work, and it shuts down for three to five weeks without pay or with pay reduced to 20%. Plus, the Nite Flirt upgrade still has no definite date for its relaunch. I had hoped to sell my home and use the equity to purchase another one, but with the economy woes and the housing mortgage scam by the banks, my home's value tanked. It went from $300,000 to less than $100,000. I owe $150,000 which is much less than the sell price can be. New laws that were passed prevents me from selling it any way except for a cash or short sale because it is 31 years old and banks refuse to finance it now even though it is excellent shape. Las Vegas has so many brand new homes for sale that selling a use done at a higher price just will not happen. I cannot take a $60,000+ loss that I have to pay back on a home I can't keep, so it goes to foreclosure and I'm filing a bankruptcy to clear the loan from my credit. It all sucks, but I know I'm not the only one experiencing this problem. But I can clearly attribute the loss of my home to Nite Flirt's upgrade. One month without pay in this hard economic times was enough for me to lose it.
CHOCOLATE AND COFFEE: Of course, chocolate and coffee still make me a bad girl. They run my life. Hot chocolate-flavored coffee in the mornings, chocolate truffles for lunch, chocolate coffee ice drinks in the afternoon (from Sonic, they make the best using ice cream instead of just ice), chocolate coffee spoons and melts in hot coffee for dinner, and a nice chocolate bon-bon for late night dessert followed by a heavy dose of iced chocolate decaf coffee before bed. When I'm being really bad, I also make several drive-throughs at McDonald's for sugar-free vanilla ice coffee or mocha ice coffee. You can make Mistress happy and feed her addiction by sending me an Amazon.com gift card or your favorite chocolate and coffee recipes.
NEW HOME: We've purchased a smaller home in Las Vegas under one of my slave's names and are in the process of moving in. My slave will precede me there and do some repairs and upgrades to the home over the next three months. It's much smaller than I am use to, but also a lot less to deal with on the mortgage and utilities. I'm trying to cram five bedrooms/3 baths plus a country kitchen and additional den into a three bedroom/2 bath, no den, small kitchen. It's been crazy deciding what to keep and what to let go. I hate the Vegas traffic and crime. Plus, I don't like the location which is a high crime area (but all of Las Vegas is, so what the hell), but I had to acquire something very close to my elderly parents whom I'm helping out right now. I'm sinking a lot of money into security for it including wrought-iron security panels for all windows and doors, and a Brinks Home Security System. It doesn't have a garage, so we are installing a drive-through gate to the backyard which is fenced, and pouring concrete for the drive-through. Can any of you give me any security tips or ideas to make it safer? I know you want your Mistress to be as safe as possible.
VANILLA FUN WITH FOOD & MOVIES: I'm looking at the advantages to living in Vegas though. I absolutely love going to the movie theaters, eating out at excellent restaurants, and shopping for exclusive and specialty items. Vegas is certainly the place for that. A good place to find me on weekends is the Town Square on Las Vegas Blvd. They have the best movie theater in Vegas plus hundreds of shops and restaurants all located in one square mile. In the evenings (and other times), they have nightly special events, especially at the bars and dance clubs in the venue. Some of the best food and service I've enjoyed have been at the Yard House restaurant and bar. It's always packed, but let that scare you away. The service is still impeccable and fast. The Yard House is an upscale-casual eatery known for its extensive menu, classic rock music, and world’s largest selection of draft beer. Each Yard House location features a transparent keg room containing more than 400 barrels, some 1,000 gallons of beer, and an endless fleet of tap handles — 100 to 250 depending on the location. The menu of American Fusion cuisine includes an impressive selection of appetizers, salads, pastas, sandwiches, individual-size pizzas, seafood, steaks, ribs and chops. I personally love the Asian appetizers and ribs. Every appetizer we have ordered has been exceptional and delicious. I also love eating at the Kabuki Japanese Restaurant near the Rave theaters. Again, the service is overwhelmingly impeccable (seeing a theme here? *grin*). Mistresses love good service. When you walk into Kabuki, you won’t be overwhelmed with Asian decor or music. What you will encounter is a casual atmosphere with modern music playing and people smiling. Mostly it's a yuppie upscale place. But, hey, Mistress loves Sushi and can't help downing a little hot Sake.
NEW YEAR'S EVE, MEET ME: Even though I'll now be living in Vegas instead of Mesquite, I will still be receiving some casino comps from a nice caller. He has already made my reservations for the New Year's Eve Party at Excalibur. I'll be there from Wednesday, December 30, 12 noon, to Saturday, January 2, 11 am. I'll be attending the New Year's Eve Party with a friend of mine (Mistress Rana), and our two top slaves. It will be an excellent opportunity for some of you to see how slaves interact and are displayed when in attendance to a Mistress in public. If you would like to look for during the holidays, request my Rules for Public Meetings or read them in previous posts. Due to the move and holidays fast approaching, this will probably be my only outing until after the first of the year around Valentine's Day.
GAY AND TRANNY CLUBS: Another bonus to living in Vegas is having access to the Gay and Tranny hang outs, which quite a few of my callers, slaves, and lifestyle friends enjoy. The Vegas areas for this type of fun are Commercial Center and the Fruit Loop *lol*. I didn't make that up, that is what it is really called. Commercial Center is located on the southwest corner of Maryland Parkway and Sahara. It contains Hank's Gym which is a favorite male gay bath house in Vegas. It's billed as a "private men's social club" and reviews say it's men only so don't show up in drag (women's clothes), Fridays and Saturdays from 11pm-5am are the busiest times, lots of hot guys but also some freaks and trolls, staff is great and the men are sex pigs, one man says he can usually hook up three time sin one evening, another says he was stuffed with cum and never had so much fun in his life. It's a definite for my gay callers to check out. You'll find your gay cowboys at the Badlands Saloon and your leathermen at the Spotlight Lounge. On the backside of Commercial Center on Karen Street, you'll find your tranny bar called the Las Vegas Lounge - this place is for transgendered and those who admire them. Tranny go-go dancers appear most nights of the week. This is also a place for the 'pros' to gather and it's a little on the seedy side but I know some of you like that. Reviews about the Lounge say the place is kind of dumpy, the best time to be there is early am around 1-2am when the amateurs and newbies come around, quite a few pros hang out there and will charge newcomers out the ass, and sometimes there are amazing looking TGs. Nearby, on E. Tropicana you'll find the Las Vegas Eagle bar which also hosts your leathermen. Who doesn't like a hot man in leather? In the Fruit Loop, an area from Harmon to Tropicana on Paradise Road, hosts Club Menage and Gypsy's which have been icons for the Fruit Loop. You may find some of the Fruit Loop offerings are tainted by cliques where visitors tend to be treated anywhere from barely nice to rude, so just take your chances and enjoy the view at these clubs.
HETERO SEX CLUBS: Vegas is also known for its sex clubs and prostitution. Prostitution abounds from street walkers to call outs (escort services in the phone book and flyers). Even though prostitution is illegal in Vegas, it gets by abundantly. Hookers patrol the Strip hotels and Strip side walks, and Tropicana just off the Strip, west bound, is considered Hooker Row. It's not unusual to see hookers in the parking lots of the hotels giving blow jobs in parked cars. Prices range from $40 (blow job from sleaze drug addict hooker) to $200+ for a handjob from an escort (in addition to her hourly charge for just "escorting"). The town is also sprinkled with Asian massage parlors, and yes, according to my callers who go to them, they do give hand and blow services for a nice tip (usually around $40-$80 after the massage payment of $60 to $100, but what the hell, they massage "everything"). And then there is the Sex Clubs which usually have an admit fee ranging from $20 to $200 for men, women are usually free, but prices depend on whether you act like a tourist or a local. You can try the Red Rooster in far E. Tropicana (but it takes a little special knowledge to purchase entrance and find them. On weekends they are pretty crowded with 100-200 people at a time sucking, blowing and enjoying the orgy room. According to some of my friends, crossdressers are not welcomed. So keep it straight. The price is anywhere from $20-$200 for men depending on whether you seem to know what you are doing or are form out of state. But it is one of the better sex clubs in Vegas. You'll also find several Sex Clubs in the Commercial Center listed above, along side the gay clubs. These include Fantasy Social Club, usually $40 for couples $60 for men, women alone are free; and the Green Door, usually $50 for couples $60 for men, $10 for single women, with special prices for slow nights; and a small Red Rooster outlet, not nearly as nice as the Tropicana version, but couple admission is $10-$20, men $50, single women free, depending on the night you choose. I've been to these clubs and most times mid-week they are dead empty, so choose a weekend night. If you want more information or details about the pricing, dungeon availability, kink, or inside action, just email me ladylila@sbcglobal.net and I'll send you some links.
FORECLOSING MESQUITE HOME: Now that the decision has been made to let my current home go, some of my personal stress has been lifted. Nite Flirt's upgrade timing came at the very worst time possible for many people including me. Just imagine, your only income source is your work, and it shuts down for three to five weeks without pay or with pay reduced to 20%. Plus, the Nite Flirt upgrade still has no definite date for its relaunch. I had hoped to sell my home and use the equity to purchase another one, but with the economy woes and the housing mortgage scam by the banks, my home's value tanked. It went from $300,000 to less than $100,000. I owe $150,000 which is much less than the sell price can be. New laws that were passed prevents me from selling it any way except for a cash or short sale because it is 31 years old and banks refuse to finance it now even though it is excellent shape. Las Vegas has so many brand new homes for sale that selling a use done at a higher price just will not happen. I cannot take a $60,000+ loss that I have to pay back on a home I can't keep, so it goes to foreclosure and I'm filing a bankruptcy to clear the loan from my credit. It all sucks, but I know I'm not the only one experiencing this problem. But I can clearly attribute the loss of my home to Nite Flirt's upgrade. One month without pay in this hard economic times was enough for me to lose it.
CHOCOLATE AND COFFEE: Of course, chocolate and coffee still make me a bad girl. They run my life. Hot chocolate-flavored coffee in the mornings, chocolate truffles for lunch, chocolate coffee ice drinks in the afternoon (from Sonic, they make the best using ice cream instead of just ice), chocolate coffee spoons and melts in hot coffee for dinner, and a nice chocolate bon-bon for late night dessert followed by a heavy dose of iced chocolate decaf coffee before bed. When I'm being really bad, I also make several drive-throughs at McDonald's for sugar-free vanilla ice coffee or mocha ice coffee. You can make Mistress happy and feed her addiction by sending me an Amazon.com gift card or your favorite chocolate and coffee recipes.
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Recovering from Car Accident
Rains and Pours
You've heard the old saying, "when it rains, it pours," meaning when something bad rains down on you many other negatives seem to follow. I think it just means "shit happens" and it happens a lot whenever it wants to. But why let it ruin your day. I have always been able to find a little humor in even the bad days, the shit happens days, and the the days when it pours *smile*.
RECOVERING: Well, at the moment, I'm very available for calls despite Nite Flirts problems. My friend and I were on our way to dinner together, October 8. She was driving. As we crossed an intersection, an elderly couple ran a stop sign and struck the edge of my door on the passenger side and most of the back door on my side, spinning the car in a hard circle and rolling it on to the driver's side. A group of boys in a passing car saw the accident, and pushed the car back upright for us and helped us out. The couple must have been doing about 60 miles an hour when they hit us. Luckily, or not, my friend's car has side airbags, which inflated for me. I was not injured severely, but for the past week, I have been suffering from a nasty case of whiplash from the airbag. I couldn't lay down or move my head from side to side. It was so sore from the base of my skull all the way through my shoulders. Just this week, I can finally move it enough to drive, and be able to look over my shoulder a little to shift lanes or turn a corner. And now, I'm sore in another place, my lower back and shoulders. The doctor says it will take several weeks for all the stiffness to go away - plus he gave me some fairly strong pain killers and muscle relaxers. No one told me you shouldn't take them together, so the first couple of days I walked around like a drunk zombie. I don't take medications hardly ever, and these were very strong. *lol* I had to go back to the doctor and ask for a lighter prescription and to stop taking the muscle relaxers all together because they made me loopy as shit. So, I apologize if you caught me on one of my loopy nights with a call *LOL* - although I'm thinking maybe it was a good thing now, because so many of you talked much longer to me while I was loopy. Did I make any promises that I may not remember *big grin*?
NITE FLIRT UPDATE: No relief in sight yet.
(1) ADDING MONEY TO THE ACCOUNT: If you have difficulty adding more money to your account, check your account information. It seems the system is resetting, deleting or changing account information on its own, and therefore, your account information may show no credit card, or an outdated credit card, etc. So, check it, correct it and it may work again.
(2) EMAILS: I'm not ignoring, really! Nite Flirt emails have a mind of their own right now. Sometimes I can send mail out and sometimes I cannot. Sometimes the mail buttons work and sometimes they don't. I could go on and on. So, if you send me an email and I don't answer - just contact me at my regular email - so far it works all the time ladylila@sbcglobal.net and I do check it regularly.
(3) DISCONNECTS: Did our call disconnect after only one or two minutes, or disconnect when you tried to add money? So sorry! But it's not me. Some of the calls are still having glitches, and Nite Flirt is working on it. Hopefully it will be repaired soon.
(4) BETA: Yah, we're still in Beta Nite Flirt. They are still fixing the glitches and problems, which come and go and come and go. And there is no date in sight for when it will be back to normal. When you call, we cannot see who is calling us so you need to identify yourself each time. Please identify yourself by name and Nite Flirt email ID. The 1-800-TO-FLIRT number is working, but you will need my extensions:
01900807 Mistress of Your Dreams
01895253 Pervert's Hotline
01920471 Sissy School Transformations
01914454 Mind Control Line
01999597 Extreme Fantasy: Giantress, Vampire, Witch, Sorceress, Beast Himself
01921093 Pantyhose Fetish
01956022 Financial Domination & Ass Whores
03808950 Chat Only Line, No Sex. My special boys can ask for a special rate!
(5) OVERSEAS CALLERS or PROBLEMS CONNECTING: If you cannot get past the connection problems, or adding money problems or any other Nite Flirt problems, contact me and I'll give you a separate and secure customer alternative option for calling me.
FAVORITE CALLERS: I have had quite a few new Mind Control callers beginning their first inductions. I have a FREE Mind Control First Induction Instruction sheet for those who request it. It has preparation instructions for your first Mind Control induction session. It's a must for anyone who wants to try erotic imagery or Mind Control. I have also had lots of requests for my FREE Newly improved 35-page Kinky Catalog. The Catalog has lots of really nice nasty photos of me that will entice that hand of yours to grab your cock and stroke *grin*. Just ask and I'll send you one. ladylila@sbcglobal.net Special thanks to my new Mind Control boys including the attorney and my boy who thinks he doesn't matter, and my new puppy trainee. I've also enjoyed my conversations with my new online sissy boy and the married boy trying to enjoy some femininity when his wife is away.
NITE FLIRT CALLS: The emergency is not over yet for many flirts. Nite Flirt is still in Beta mode and many of the Flirt customers don't know the phone lines are working again. So, our calls are still just a drizzle (most of us are making about 1/3 of what we use to make). Support your Mistress, and keep her smiling. If you cannot send an Amazon.com gift card or a tribute or purchase small pay-to-view, then please just send me an email, love letter or note of support as we all struggle through this down economy and Nite Flirt's upgrade fiasco.
From your loving Mistress (who knows how to punish with a great big strap-on *smile*)
You've heard the old saying, "when it rains, it pours," meaning when something bad rains down on you many other negatives seem to follow. I think it just means "shit happens" and it happens a lot whenever it wants to. But why let it ruin your day. I have always been able to find a little humor in even the bad days, the shit happens days, and the the days when it pours *smile*.
RECOVERING: Well, at the moment, I'm very available for calls despite Nite Flirts problems. My friend and I were on our way to dinner together, October 8. She was driving. As we crossed an intersection, an elderly couple ran a stop sign and struck the edge of my door on the passenger side and most of the back door on my side, spinning the car in a hard circle and rolling it on to the driver's side. A group of boys in a passing car saw the accident, and pushed the car back upright for us and helped us out. The couple must have been doing about 60 miles an hour when they hit us. Luckily, or not, my friend's car has side airbags, which inflated for me. I was not injured severely, but for the past week, I have been suffering from a nasty case of whiplash from the airbag. I couldn't lay down or move my head from side to side. It was so sore from the base of my skull all the way through my shoulders. Just this week, I can finally move it enough to drive, and be able to look over my shoulder a little to shift lanes or turn a corner. And now, I'm sore in another place, my lower back and shoulders. The doctor says it will take several weeks for all the stiffness to go away - plus he gave me some fairly strong pain killers and muscle relaxers. No one told me you shouldn't take them together, so the first couple of days I walked around like a drunk zombie. I don't take medications hardly ever, and these were very strong. *lol* I had to go back to the doctor and ask for a lighter prescription and to stop taking the muscle relaxers all together because they made me loopy as shit. So, I apologize if you caught me on one of my loopy nights with a call *LOL* - although I'm thinking maybe it was a good thing now, because so many of you talked much longer to me while I was loopy. Did I make any promises that I may not remember *big grin*?
NITE FLIRT UPDATE: No relief in sight yet.
(1) ADDING MONEY TO THE ACCOUNT: If you have difficulty adding more money to your account, check your account information. It seems the system is resetting, deleting or changing account information on its own, and therefore, your account information may show no credit card, or an outdated credit card, etc. So, check it, correct it and it may work again.
(2) EMAILS: I'm not ignoring, really! Nite Flirt emails have a mind of their own right now. Sometimes I can send mail out and sometimes I cannot. Sometimes the mail buttons work and sometimes they don't. I could go on and on. So, if you send me an email and I don't answer - just contact me at my regular email - so far it works all the time ladylila@sbcglobal.net and I do check it regularly.
(3) DISCONNECTS: Did our call disconnect after only one or two minutes, or disconnect when you tried to add money? So sorry! But it's not me. Some of the calls are still having glitches, and Nite Flirt is working on it. Hopefully it will be repaired soon.
(4) BETA: Yah, we're still in Beta Nite Flirt. They are still fixing the glitches and problems, which come and go and come and go. And there is no date in sight for when it will be back to normal. When you call, we cannot see who is calling us so you need to identify yourself each time. Please identify yourself by name and Nite Flirt email ID. The 1-800-TO-FLIRT number is working, but you will need my extensions:
01900807 Mistress of Your Dreams
01895253 Pervert's Hotline
01920471 Sissy School Transformations
01914454 Mind Control Line
01999597 Extreme Fantasy: Giantress, Vampire, Witch, Sorceress, Beast Himself
01921093 Pantyhose Fetish
01956022 Financial Domination & Ass Whores
03808950 Chat Only Line, No Sex. My special boys can ask for a special rate!
(5) OVERSEAS CALLERS or PROBLEMS CONNECTING: If you cannot get past the connection problems, or adding money problems or any other Nite Flirt problems, contact me and I'll give you a separate and secure customer alternative option for calling me.
FAVORITE CALLERS: I have had quite a few new Mind Control callers beginning their first inductions. I have a FREE Mind Control First Induction Instruction sheet for those who request it. It has preparation instructions for your first Mind Control induction session. It's a must for anyone who wants to try erotic imagery or Mind Control. I have also had lots of requests for my FREE Newly improved 35-page Kinky Catalog. The Catalog has lots of really nice nasty photos of me that will entice that hand of yours to grab your cock and stroke *grin*. Just ask and I'll send you one. ladylila@sbcglobal.net Special thanks to my new Mind Control boys including the attorney and my boy who thinks he doesn't matter, and my new puppy trainee. I've also enjoyed my conversations with my new online sissy boy and the married boy trying to enjoy some femininity when his wife is away.
NITE FLIRT CALLS: The emergency is not over yet for many flirts. Nite Flirt is still in Beta mode and many of the Flirt customers don't know the phone lines are working again. So, our calls are still just a drizzle (most of us are making about 1/3 of what we use to make). Support your Mistress, and keep her smiling. If you cannot send an Amazon.com gift card or a tribute or purchase small pay-to-view, then please just send me an email, love letter or note of support as we all struggle through this down economy and Nite Flirt's upgrade fiasco.
From your loving Mistress (who knows how to punish with a great big strap-on *smile*)
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
NF Crisis not over yet but improving
My Life, My Mortgage
Nite Flirt Crisis / Updates
MY LIFE:
Insomnia: Okay, this is what several nights of insomnia get you! I stay up all night, writing and bitching and whining, until I've written a whole book for you to read. I'm having some bad bouts of insomnia right now, as I struggle to get my finances and other life yearnings in order. So you may want to skip reading this, unless you are really, really bored, or just totally enamored with your Mistrress! *big grin* Yes, there's a little begging, a bit of whining, and some "trying to make the best" of things. So, I'm not going to say "enjoy!" *lol*
The Good: Starting in January 2010, I'm going to be saving a lot of money as I allow my home to go into foreclosure, and then bankruptcy to clear the mortgage and equity line loans. I'll be living rent free from January to May, and I'll be able to save up quite a bit so my savings should look good again by the middle of next year. Hey! I have to find rainbows on the horizon where I can get them these days. It's not much but it's something. I'm losing my home and this is better than sitting on the front porch crying. No matter what has happened to me in the past, each bad event has lead to a better ending. I'm hoping this one does the same thing.
The Bad: Things have certainly changed with the unexpected Nite Flirt shut-down and remodel. It just caught quite a few of us at a really bad time. We are still shaking our heads and wondering "What were they thinking?" when they decided to do this during the midst of a deep recession. I was the last wage earner left working in the house, and now NF screwed that up. Sadly, I won't be saving my house. I wanted to sell it, and had planned to do so about two years ago, but alas, I waited a bit too long. The market fell, my house depreciated, and if I could hold out for another 5 years or so, the value might come back up enough. But I can't hold out that long in this recession and with Nite Flirt's "straw that broke the camel's back." I lost $100,000 in equity in two years. Now, the house is actually valued at less than when I originally bought it back 5 years ago. Since I can't sell it, keep the mortgage payments going on half income, or pay back the home equity (improvement) loan I have on it, I'm headed to the backruptcy lawyer tomorrow to prepare to let it go. I tried everything I could with my mortgage company, who offered some real nice *sarcasm fully intended* arrangements. They said I didn't qualify for loan modification or refinancing because I have unique income (phone sex and sessions) and because I'm a dumbass who actually pays her bills on time. They said they might (and it was a big iffy might) be able to help me if I was like 10 months behind on my mortgage, but no promises. They said also I could just give them the keys and they'll call it even but I'd still have to pay the equity line off, and oh yah, it going to completely trash my credit. Then they tried to tell me how "trashed credit by them" would be better for me than a bankruptcy. Or I could do a short sale and only owe the balance of whatever they couldn't get for me. In fact, they offered several options to walk away from the property with just "totally trashed" credit. I truly not a happy camper. If my credit is going to be trashed anyway - it's going to be on my terms. I plan to sell off everything I put into the home including the two AC units on the roof. I won't get $100,000 out of it, but I will get a few thousand that may hold me over through these rough times.
The Ugly: In the meantime, and this truly sucks, when I leave the house, I'll be moving back in with my parents while I search for a home in their neighborhood that I can buy for cash. I had already planned to move near them (they are elderly and need help), but now I have to move in with them while I shop for a home in a bad part of town. *Push the gun a little closer* That means no kinky play while there unless my generous Nite Flirt caller sets me up with his casino comp rooms. I don't want to give my aging father a heart attack by showing him what his daught really likes ot do in her spare time. I had hoped to buy a home on the other side of the highway from them, but find that I will probably end up with them and then with a rented home in crime-ridden North Las Vegas, on their very street. *gag, gag, puke* I f*cking hate renting.
MY SLAVES:
Still Laid Off: My two slaves are both in construction, and both laid off due to Vegas not having any construction at all at this time. I moved one of them out temporarily in with his in-laws who are also caring for him mother, who was taken from a moderate nursing home to home care due to his not having a paycheck anymore. My other provided my health insurance and has taken to parking his truck at Home Depot for a side job here and there. My sissy also had to move out, temporarily, and is staying in Vegas with friends of mine, with a job driving an ad truck, so he can make enough to pay his child support. Yah, kind of funny huh? My sissy has kids and child support. It's hard for some to picture. But even slaves have real time life commitments other than their Mistress. If you don't live in Nevada or watch the news, you probably don't know that Nevada has one of the highest unemployment rates in the nation and it continues to climb. Unlike the casinos, I cannot just quit paying bills and claim a reorganization type bankruptcy to hold me over. In fact, the casino news makes me want to puke. The casinos whine about only having $20 million in profits over the last month instead of their usual $60 million a month. Must be nice, huh? They are bitching about a $20 million profit - yah PROFIT, while we all scrimp for groceries and hope the state's unemployment doesn't run out. The Great Mortgage Scam and Bail Out Scam has royally screwed us all.
NITE FLIRT: The Nite Flirt (NF) crisis is not over yet. *Damn it* We are still being told there is no definite launch date for return to the regular site. But please hang in there with me, it's getting better each day. These are some of the issues we are still facing. (1) Adding money: In the meantime, customers are still battling the system when they try to add money. It's recommended that if you have this difficulty, check your account settings. Some customers have experienced NF reverting their pages back to credit cards that have expired or been changed out for another one. Simply re-enter your credit card info and try again. Sometimes it's best to just use the leftover minutes in your account, and then hang up when that voice comes on telling you to add more, then redial and add to your account and begin the call again as a new call. Sometimes the call disconnects at that point any way. (2) Disconnects: PLEASE do not blame your flirt for these issues. I had a caller the other night who talked for 5 minutes, then the "add more money" voice came on and we were disconnected. He tried twice more to connect with me, and each time it was for one minute then disconnected again. Now I know some of this is due to callers using only free minutes and then trying to add money, but all they get is a disconnect after the free minute is over. It's not the flirts fault, but this caller sent me a blazing email thinking I had hung up on him. Believe me, there are no hang ups on my end, I need the funds, every last penny of them! (3) Two calls at once: Also, some of the flirts are having their calls interrupted with second calls coming through while they are a call already, and sometimes this disconnects them. The NF system is suppose to see that you are on a call and set you to busy so additional calls do not come through. But that is only working periodically. Sometimes a second call coming through cuts the first one off with a disconnect. Again, not the flirts fault. (4) Taking Calls or Away: Some of us are unable to log off and/or back on. In my case, the log off and log on are not working right. So sometimes my pages say I am logged on and I find out I'm not, and other times, I log off but I'm really still logged on. PLEASE do not become impatient with me if you call and I pick up and say please call back later. If I ask you to call back later, it means I was in the middle of a sleep cycle. I'm trying to stay on around the clock, and have awakened many times to take a late or early call over the past two weeks. But at some point I reach the state of exhaustion and have to rest uninterrupted, or have an appointment and must rest before I go to it. I apologize for the system not working right. (5) FREE minutes: A few customers asked for free minutes when disconnects and other problems occur. I'm happy to give out FREE minutes, because I want happy callers, however, at this time NF won't let some of us send out free minutes or pay-to-views or payment requests, or it might let us send a pay-to-view but not minutes. Some of us are also having difficulty sending attachments with our emails. The email goes through but not the attachment. And lastly, a part that really sucks, we can only email one customer at a time. (6) Tributes: At this time, Nite Flirt is telling us, it cannot take tributes. So, if you like sending me tributes, you'll have to change over to Gift Cards until that's fixed. (7) FREE New Kinky 35-Page Updated Catalog: I have a NEW Kinky Catalog that contains 35-pages of web items and photos. The first edition contained only 15-pages. If you were lucky, you at least received the first Catalog in your NF email. However, I am now unable to send any more out because the glitch is clearing them off. If you would like the FREE NEW 35-Page Updated Kinky Catalog just email me at ladylila@sbcglobal.net and I'll send it to you via regular email. Totally FREE!
SINCERE AND SPECIAL THANKS: To my callers who have fought Nite Flirt's broken system to call me and send me pay-to-views and gift cards - thank you so much. I just cannot thank you enough. It has helped and it's keeping me going. For those of you who cannot call or help out, it's okay. I understand, because many of you are in the same boat I'm in. Just send me an email to perk me up! ladylila@sbcglobal.net
Nite Flirt Crisis / Updates
MY LIFE:
Insomnia: Okay, this is what several nights of insomnia get you! I stay up all night, writing and bitching and whining, until I've written a whole book for you to read. I'm having some bad bouts of insomnia right now, as I struggle to get my finances and other life yearnings in order. So you may want to skip reading this, unless you are really, really bored, or just totally enamored with your Mistrress! *big grin* Yes, there's a little begging, a bit of whining, and some "trying to make the best" of things. So, I'm not going to say "enjoy!" *lol*
The Good: Starting in January 2010, I'm going to be saving a lot of money as I allow my home to go into foreclosure, and then bankruptcy to clear the mortgage and equity line loans. I'll be living rent free from January to May, and I'll be able to save up quite a bit so my savings should look good again by the middle of next year. Hey! I have to find rainbows on the horizon where I can get them these days. It's not much but it's something. I'm losing my home and this is better than sitting on the front porch crying. No matter what has happened to me in the past, each bad event has lead to a better ending. I'm hoping this one does the same thing.
The Bad: Things have certainly changed with the unexpected Nite Flirt shut-down and remodel. It just caught quite a few of us at a really bad time. We are still shaking our heads and wondering "What were they thinking?" when they decided to do this during the midst of a deep recession. I was the last wage earner left working in the house, and now NF screwed that up. Sadly, I won't be saving my house. I wanted to sell it, and had planned to do so about two years ago, but alas, I waited a bit too long. The market fell, my house depreciated, and if I could hold out for another 5 years or so, the value might come back up enough. But I can't hold out that long in this recession and with Nite Flirt's "straw that broke the camel's back." I lost $100,000 in equity in two years. Now, the house is actually valued at less than when I originally bought it back 5 years ago. Since I can't sell it, keep the mortgage payments going on half income, or pay back the home equity (improvement) loan I have on it, I'm headed to the backruptcy lawyer tomorrow to prepare to let it go. I tried everything I could with my mortgage company, who offered some real nice *sarcasm fully intended* arrangements. They said I didn't qualify for loan modification or refinancing because I have unique income (phone sex and sessions) and because I'm a dumbass who actually pays her bills on time. They said they might (and it was a big iffy might) be able to help me if I was like 10 months behind on my mortgage, but no promises. They said also I could just give them the keys and they'll call it even but I'd still have to pay the equity line off, and oh yah, it going to completely trash my credit. Then they tried to tell me how "trashed credit by them" would be better for me than a bankruptcy. Or I could do a short sale and only owe the balance of whatever they couldn't get for me. In fact, they offered several options to walk away from the property with just "totally trashed" credit. I truly not a happy camper. If my credit is going to be trashed anyway - it's going to be on my terms. I plan to sell off everything I put into the home including the two AC units on the roof. I won't get $100,000 out of it, but I will get a few thousand that may hold me over through these rough times.
The Ugly: In the meantime, and this truly sucks, when I leave the house, I'll be moving back in with my parents while I search for a home in their neighborhood that I can buy for cash. I had already planned to move near them (they are elderly and need help), but now I have to move in with them while I shop for a home in a bad part of town. *Push the gun a little closer* That means no kinky play while there unless my generous Nite Flirt caller sets me up with his casino comp rooms. I don't want to give my aging father a heart attack by showing him what his daught really likes ot do in her spare time. I had hoped to buy a home on the other side of the highway from them, but find that I will probably end up with them and then with a rented home in crime-ridden North Las Vegas, on their very street. *gag, gag, puke* I f*cking hate renting.
MY SLAVES:
Still Laid Off: My two slaves are both in construction, and both laid off due to Vegas not having any construction at all at this time. I moved one of them out temporarily in with his in-laws who are also caring for him mother, who was taken from a moderate nursing home to home care due to his not having a paycheck anymore. My other provided my health insurance and has taken to parking his truck at Home Depot for a side job here and there. My sissy also had to move out, temporarily, and is staying in Vegas with friends of mine, with a job driving an ad truck, so he can make enough to pay his child support. Yah, kind of funny huh? My sissy has kids and child support. It's hard for some to picture. But even slaves have real time life commitments other than their Mistress. If you don't live in Nevada or watch the news, you probably don't know that Nevada has one of the highest unemployment rates in the nation and it continues to climb. Unlike the casinos, I cannot just quit paying bills and claim a reorganization type bankruptcy to hold me over. In fact, the casino news makes me want to puke. The casinos whine about only having $20 million in profits over the last month instead of their usual $60 million a month. Must be nice, huh? They are bitching about a $20 million profit - yah PROFIT, while we all scrimp for groceries and hope the state's unemployment doesn't run out. The Great Mortgage Scam and Bail Out Scam has royally screwed us all.
Perks: Living in Vegas will have it perks, so that's something positive. I'll be able to be active in the local BDSM groups, maybe attend a few parties (it's been a while), and enjoy the rewards of higher education. Most people don't know this about me, but I have 102 college credits - and no degree. I just hate taking those boring core credits that are required for degrees. I just refer to myself as a career student. *lol* I plan to take some classes in Dreamweaver, so I won't have t pay out the ass for web design anymore. Also, I love going to the movies, so that will be a weekly occurance. And, we'll actually have extra cash to go to the movies since I won't have a mortgage or rent payment for a while.
Another highlight: Even though my credit will be trashed, my slave, the one I married for health insurance, who is in his early 20s, can buy a house under his own name. All we have to do is save up for the down payment (which will take quite a while in this economy) and wait until he is working full time again (which we are told by the union could be two years or more). But it is an option. He would buy the home, and then Quit Claim it to me. My tumbling blocks of life start falling in January with the bankruptcy but hopefully pick up in May 2010, as I begin to rebuild credit and home.
CHOCOLATE HELPS: So, how about it? Send me a little dark chocolate and some chocolate flavored coffee? I'm in the process of packing up my house and moving everything. This brings me across a lot of momentos, and decisions about what to keep, what to store and what to sell. Which causes quite a few tears on my part. I loved my house, and I hate to see it go. I had even decided I wanted to keep it and not move after all (just keep driving back and forth for my parents care like I've done the past two years), but alas, someitmes life makes the decisions for you. I know I'm not the only one in this situation, but it not true, "Misery does not like company." So hey, how about supporting my chocolate habit until I can make my slaves take it back over? Dig a little deeper in those pockets this month, add a little bit more to that credit card. Send an Amazon gift card or grocery certificate to Albertsons’ or another food chain. Purchase a slave contract, sissy lesson or masturbation aid from my FREE NEW 35-Page Kinky Catalog with the PTV option or Gift Cards? Send me a little love email or box of chocolates? Maybe a box of tissues and tin of chocolate coffee while I watch my boys load my belongings on a truck for storage? My Wish List is on the right side of the blog page near the bottom.NITE FLIRT: The Nite Flirt (NF) crisis is not over yet. *Damn it* We are still being told there is no definite launch date for return to the regular site. But please hang in there with me, it's getting better each day. These are some of the issues we are still facing. (1) Adding money: In the meantime, customers are still battling the system when they try to add money. It's recommended that if you have this difficulty, check your account settings. Some customers have experienced NF reverting their pages back to credit cards that have expired or been changed out for another one. Simply re-enter your credit card info and try again. Sometimes it's best to just use the leftover minutes in your account, and then hang up when that voice comes on telling you to add more, then redial and add to your account and begin the call again as a new call. Sometimes the call disconnects at that point any way. (2) Disconnects: PLEASE do not blame your flirt for these issues. I had a caller the other night who talked for 5 minutes, then the "add more money" voice came on and we were disconnected. He tried twice more to connect with me, and each time it was for one minute then disconnected again. Now I know some of this is due to callers using only free minutes and then trying to add money, but all they get is a disconnect after the free minute is over. It's not the flirts fault, but this caller sent me a blazing email thinking I had hung up on him. Believe me, there are no hang ups on my end, I need the funds, every last penny of them! (3) Two calls at once: Also, some of the flirts are having their calls interrupted with second calls coming through while they are a call already, and sometimes this disconnects them. The NF system is suppose to see that you are on a call and set you to busy so additional calls do not come through. But that is only working periodically. Sometimes a second call coming through cuts the first one off with a disconnect. Again, not the flirts fault. (4) Taking Calls or Away: Some of us are unable to log off and/or back on. In my case, the log off and log on are not working right. So sometimes my pages say I am logged on and I find out I'm not, and other times, I log off but I'm really still logged on. PLEASE do not become impatient with me if you call and I pick up and say please call back later. If I ask you to call back later, it means I was in the middle of a sleep cycle. I'm trying to stay on around the clock, and have awakened many times to take a late or early call over the past two weeks. But at some point I reach the state of exhaustion and have to rest uninterrupted, or have an appointment and must rest before I go to it. I apologize for the system not working right. (5) FREE minutes: A few customers asked for free minutes when disconnects and other problems occur. I'm happy to give out FREE minutes, because I want happy callers, however, at this time NF won't let some of us send out free minutes or pay-to-views or payment requests, or it might let us send a pay-to-view but not minutes. Some of us are also having difficulty sending attachments with our emails. The email goes through but not the attachment. And lastly, a part that really sucks, we can only email one customer at a time. (6) Tributes: At this time, Nite Flirt is telling us, it cannot take tributes. So, if you like sending me tributes, you'll have to change over to Gift Cards until that's fixed. (7) FREE New Kinky 35-Page Updated Catalog: I have a NEW Kinky Catalog that contains 35-pages of web items and photos. The first edition contained only 15-pages. If you were lucky, you at least received the first Catalog in your NF email. However, I am now unable to send any more out because the glitch is clearing them off. If you would like the FREE NEW 35-Page Updated Kinky Catalog just email me at ladylila@sbcglobal.net and I'll send it to you via regular email. Totally FREE!
SINCERE AND SPECIAL THANKS: To my callers who have fought Nite Flirt's broken system to call me and send me pay-to-views and gift cards - thank you so much. I just cannot thank you enough. It has helped and it's keeping me going. For those of you who cannot call or help out, it's okay. I understand, because many of you are in the same boat I'm in. Just send me an email to perk me up! ladylila@sbcglobal.net
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Real Time Service & Nite Flirt Updates
Real Time Service & Nite Flirt Update
& Alternative Call Options
RE: Real Time Service
I've been getting many, many requests lately for full-time, real time service. I am always open to new boys for full time, live-in service to me. Mistress-slave relationships are some of the most wonderful and most rewarding of all. However, there are restrictions for my own protection and to make sure you are a good candidate for that type of service. To make sure you are dedicated and serious about real time service in the BDSM lifestyle between a Mistress and slave/submissive, I require an online contract and some online training to earn an in-person interview. Prior to the interview you will also have to read and answer several screening letters via email. This takes time so the first thing I will test is your patience and devotion for desire you seek. The contract, training assignments, and screening letters help me weed out wannabes, curiosity seekers, sex addicts and other people trying to acquire a position in my household who are not really lifestyle (or Mistress) dedicated. If you still have an interest in the possibility of real time service, then read on --
I run a communal household (meaning there is always more than one slave serving me and living with me). You WILL NOT be my one and only. If you want to be the only one -- look elsewhere. I currently own one male sex slave, one sissy maid, and one male submissive. They are all collared to me for long term service. They belong to me and serve me ONLY. I ONLY have intercourse with my collared slaves and submissives, and only when I want it - so don't think you will gain that type of special attention by asking for a one time session or part-time service (although I may be willing to give you a good ass fucking with my strap-on if I think you deserve it). To apply for a position with me, you must choose and sign a contract, complete training assignments and respond appropriately to the screening letters and forms I send to you. If you cannot read, write or clearly understand English - don't bother wasting my time. If you have difficulty following written and verbal instructions, again - don't bother. If you are married, DON'T BOTHER. If you are single and you SINCERELY want to serve me, show me you have something to offer other than your useless dick. Sadly, thousands before you have wasted my time. They promised their sincerity then missed their interview, or wrote dozens of emails then flaked out, etc. - in other words, they wasted my time and I DON'T LIKE THAT! Due to their insincerity and my time be wasted by them, all online or email applicants have to contact me via Nite Flirt (or alternative) phone calls first and complete all steps to prove they are sincere. You will have to chat with me dozens of times to gain my attention and prove your sincerity. You will have to court me. You will have to show me you are totally 100% submissive. You will have to shine above the rest - above the other hundreds of insincere, pathetic, lifeless, losers who are competing for my attention. You will have to wine and dine me via phone and small gifts or cards or letters, and give me an abundance of your time, before I will even consider you. It doesn't cost you anymore than it would to date me and get to know me. I've even set up a special, inexpensive Chat Only line for this. If you feel that is too much for you to do before you meet me or serve me, then you ARE NOT a slave, you are self-serving and need to look elsewhere. You will have to show me you really want me and my lifestyle, and if what I ask is too much, then you don't want me or the lifestyle. Besides, your best alternative is to call me and chat, ask questions, and find out whether you truly have the sincerity and drive to really serve me. I also recommend you contact me and order the e-book "Can I be a slave?" This little booklet tells you what serving a Mistress is like. The calls and booklet are much cheaper than meeting and wasting both our time, plus they will help you decide whether you really want to serve or whether it is just a fantasy that will never happen.
RE: Nite Flirt
Yes, it's a nightmare. At this time, Nite Flirt can only be accessed via web through the Beta Site. You can connect with me through this Beta Site link:
http://beta.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila .
To make a call you must click on the Call Button in the first section of the page, under the yellow "During transition - USE THIS BUTTON TO CALL ME." Then Nite Flirt will call you back and make the connection. Keep in mind, this is a Beta Site, for temporary use until all the bugs are worked out. Sometimes the site is down to test upgrades, and the call button doesn't work for a hour or so. Don't worry, it does eventually work again in the same day or night. So, just keep trying your call periodically until you get through. And, as far as we can tell, the payment buttons for items still work most of time. Should you have any problems with them, just contact for a direct emailing of your items.
RE: Other ways to contact me and also be updated
If you'd like to learn more about me, here are some FREE links that have FREE photos of me, nasty stories, slave training information, guided masturbation aids, Mistress blogs, and more:
(1) My blog - http://www.mistresslila.blogspot.com/
(2) My Yahoo Group - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mistresslila/
(3) And you can become part of my Twitter Slaves at http://twitter.com/Mistress_Lila
(4) Nite Flirt Beta Site - http://beta.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila temporarily because it is a beta site for upgrades to the old site -- after upgrades are completed then it's back to www.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila
(5) I also have a FREE Kinky Catalog, just for asking - sent via email as a pdf file, full of nasty photos, kinky selections, masturbation aids, trance aids, and more.
(6) And, my direct contacts include two emails: ladylila@sbcglobal.net and ladylila2006@yahoo.com and my messenger ID is ladylila2006
RE: More About Nite Flirt and Alternatives
If you have consistent problems calling through the Nite Flirt Beta Site, just email me or messenger me (ladylila2006), and I can make other payment arrangements and give you a personal phone number in the meantime.
There have been many guesses and potential reasons for Nite Flirt being down, but most of us think Nite Flirt lost its software agreement for the platform (the web site design and use of it) and had to build another one from scratch; as well as replace their merchant services for processing credit cards with another one. It's likely, the rebuild of the site software was much more intensive than they thought, and they are having difficulty getting it done. First they said it would take 4 hours, then 12 hours, then one week, and now it looks like it may take several weeks or longer. But in the meantime, Nite Flirt has provided the Beta Site (link above) to use while the main site is being renewed and completed. The Beta Site works the same as the original site worked. Nite Flirt has completed a lot of different sections like: Call Buttons, some Listings, page transfers, money issues, etc. There is more left to be done. If you read the Nite Flirt forum posts you will see what those problems are and when they are corrected.
But you can still call and everything, the issues mainly effect your flirt not you. However, some customers are having difficulty adding funds to their accounts. Also, sometimes, when they are working on a specific problem, they shut down call access for a few hours. In these cases, just keep trying. If you have any specific questions, don't hesitate to ask and I'll try to get you an answer, or set up another arrangement for you.
RE: My New Great Alternative for Callers Coming Soon
I'm also making sure I have an alternative to Nite Flirt, ready and available for all my customers within the next couple weeks to cover problems like this (but Nite Flirt will still be my main access). It's just smart business to have an alternative these days with so many businesses closing. This alternative site will accept only Amazon.com Gift Cards as payment. On the alternative site, there is going to be a provision where you can make phone sex calls and acquire e-books through Amazon.com Gift Cards. Imagine the possibilities. No more worry about the wife/girlfriend finding your credit card statement with phone sex changes. All she sees is an Amazon.com purchase, not details, just an amount at a legitimate store. You may have purchased office supplies, or gift basket for a co-worker, flowers for a funeral or baby shower - all the statement will show is the total you spent and no details, so any story about the purchase can be your own and is not available for discussion. Plausible deniability! Wow!
I hope this answered all your questions.
Mistress Lila
& Alternative Call Options
RE: Real Time Service
I've been getting many, many requests lately for full-time, real time service. I am always open to new boys for full time, live-in service to me. Mistress-slave relationships are some of the most wonderful and most rewarding of all. However, there are restrictions for my own protection and to make sure you are a good candidate for that type of service. To make sure you are dedicated and serious about real time service in the BDSM lifestyle between a Mistress and slave/submissive, I require an online contract and some online training to earn an in-person interview. Prior to the interview you will also have to read and answer several screening letters via email. This takes time so the first thing I will test is your patience and devotion for desire you seek. The contract, training assignments, and screening letters help me weed out wannabes, curiosity seekers, sex addicts and other people trying to acquire a position in my household who are not really lifestyle (or Mistress) dedicated. If you still have an interest in the possibility of real time service, then read on --
I run a communal household (meaning there is always more than one slave serving me and living with me). You WILL NOT be my one and only. If you want to be the only one -- look elsewhere. I currently own one male sex slave, one sissy maid, and one male submissive. They are all collared to me for long term service. They belong to me and serve me ONLY. I ONLY have intercourse with my collared slaves and submissives, and only when I want it - so don't think you will gain that type of special attention by asking for a one time session or part-time service (although I may be willing to give you a good ass fucking with my strap-on if I think you deserve it). To apply for a position with me, you must choose and sign a contract, complete training assignments and respond appropriately to the screening letters and forms I send to you. If you cannot read, write or clearly understand English - don't bother wasting my time. If you have difficulty following written and verbal instructions, again - don't bother. If you are married, DON'T BOTHER. If you are single and you SINCERELY want to serve me, show me you have something to offer other than your useless dick. Sadly, thousands before you have wasted my time. They promised their sincerity then missed their interview, or wrote dozens of emails then flaked out, etc. - in other words, they wasted my time and I DON'T LIKE THAT! Due to their insincerity and my time be wasted by them, all online or email applicants have to contact me via Nite Flirt (or alternative) phone calls first and complete all steps to prove they are sincere. You will have to chat with me dozens of times to gain my attention and prove your sincerity. You will have to court me. You will have to show me you are totally 100% submissive. You will have to shine above the rest - above the other hundreds of insincere, pathetic, lifeless, losers who are competing for my attention. You will have to wine and dine me via phone and small gifts or cards or letters, and give me an abundance of your time, before I will even consider you. It doesn't cost you anymore than it would to date me and get to know me. I've even set up a special, inexpensive Chat Only line for this. If you feel that is too much for you to do before you meet me or serve me, then you ARE NOT a slave, you are self-serving and need to look elsewhere. You will have to show me you really want me and my lifestyle, and if what I ask is too much, then you don't want me or the lifestyle. Besides, your best alternative is to call me and chat, ask questions, and find out whether you truly have the sincerity and drive to really serve me. I also recommend you contact me and order the e-book "Can I be a slave?" This little booklet tells you what serving a Mistress is like. The calls and booklet are much cheaper than meeting and wasting both our time, plus they will help you decide whether you really want to serve or whether it is just a fantasy that will never happen.RE: Nite Flirt
Yes, it's a nightmare. At this time, Nite Flirt can only be accessed via web through the Beta Site. You can connect with me through this Beta Site link:
http://beta.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila .
To make a call you must click on the Call Button in the first section of the page, under the yellow "During transition - USE THIS BUTTON TO CALL ME." Then Nite Flirt will call you back and make the connection. Keep in mind, this is a Beta Site, for temporary use until all the bugs are worked out. Sometimes the site is down to test upgrades, and the call button doesn't work for a hour or so. Don't worry, it does eventually work again in the same day or night. So, just keep trying your call periodically until you get through. And, as far as we can tell, the payment buttons for items still work most of time. Should you have any problems with them, just contact for a direct emailing of your items.
RE: Other ways to contact me and also be updated
If you'd like to learn more about me, here are some FREE links that have FREE photos of me, nasty stories, slave training information, guided masturbation aids, Mistress blogs, and more:
(1) My blog - http://www.mistresslila.blogspot.com/
(2) My Yahoo Group - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mistresslila/
(3) And you can become part of my Twitter Slaves at http://twitter.com/Mistress_Lila
(4) Nite Flirt Beta Site - http://beta.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila temporarily because it is a beta site for upgrades to the old site -- after upgrades are completed then it's back to www.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila
(5) I also have a FREE Kinky Catalog, just for asking - sent via email as a pdf file, full of nasty photos, kinky selections, masturbation aids, trance aids, and more.
(6) And, my direct contacts include two emails: ladylila@sbcglobal.net and ladylila2006@yahoo.com and my messenger ID is ladylila2006
RE: More About Nite Flirt and Alternatives
If you have consistent problems calling through the Nite Flirt Beta Site, just email me or messenger me (ladylila2006), and I can make other payment arrangements and give you a personal phone number in the meantime.
There have been many guesses and potential reasons for Nite Flirt being down, but most of us think Nite Flirt lost its software agreement for the platform (the web site design and use of it) and had to build another one from scratch; as well as replace their merchant services for processing credit cards with another one. It's likely, the rebuild of the site software was much more intensive than they thought, and they are having difficulty getting it done. First they said it would take 4 hours, then 12 hours, then one week, and now it looks like it may take several weeks or longer. But in the meantime, Nite Flirt has provided the Beta Site (link above) to use while the main site is being renewed and completed. The Beta Site works the same as the original site worked. Nite Flirt has completed a lot of different sections like: Call Buttons, some Listings, page transfers, money issues, etc. There is more left to be done. If you read the Nite Flirt forum posts you will see what those problems are and when they are corrected.
But you can still call and everything, the issues mainly effect your flirt not you. However, some customers are having difficulty adding funds to their accounts. Also, sometimes, when they are working on a specific problem, they shut down call access for a few hours. In these cases, just keep trying. If you have any specific questions, don't hesitate to ask and I'll try to get you an answer, or set up another arrangement for you.
RE: My New Great Alternative for Callers Coming Soon
I'm also making sure I have an alternative to Nite Flirt, ready and available for all my customers within the next couple weeks to cover problems like this (but Nite Flirt will still be my main access). It's just smart business to have an alternative these days with so many businesses closing. This alternative site will accept only Amazon.com Gift Cards as payment. On the alternative site, there is going to be a provision where you can make phone sex calls and acquire e-books through Amazon.com Gift Cards. Imagine the possibilities. No more worry about the wife/girlfriend finding your credit card statement with phone sex changes. All she sees is an Amazon.com purchase, not details, just an amount at a legitimate store. You may have purchased office supplies, or gift basket for a co-worker, flowers for a funeral or baby shower - all the statement will show is the total you spent and no details, so any story about the purchase can be your own and is not available for discussion. Plausible deniability! Wow!
I hope this answered all your questions.
Mistress Lila
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