Thursday, October 1, 2009

Real Time Service & Nite Flirt Updates

Real Time Service & Nite Flirt Update
& Alternative Call Options


RE: Real Time Service
I've been getting many, many requests lately for full-time, real time service. I am always open to new boys for full time, live-in service to me. Mistress-slave relationships are some of the most wonderful and most rewarding of all. However, there are restrictions for my own protection and to make sure you are a good candidate for that type of service. To make sure you are dedicated and serious about real time service in the BDSM lifestyle between a Mistress and slave/submissive, I require an online contract and some online training to earn an in-person interview. Prior to the interview you will also have to read and answer several screening letters via email. This takes time so the first thing I will test is your patience and devotion for desire you seek. The contract, training assignments, and screening letters help me weed out wannabes, curiosity seekers, sex addicts and other people trying to acquire a position in my household who are not really lifestyle (or Mistress) dedicated. If you still have an interest in the possibility of real time service, then read on --
I run a communal household (meaning there is always more than one slave serving me and living with me). You WILL NOT be my one and only. If you want to be the only one -- look elsewhere. I currently own one male sex slave, one sissy maid, and one male submissive. They are all collared to me for long term service. They belong to me and serve me ONLY. I ONLY have intercourse with my collared slaves and submissives, and only when I want it - so don't think you will gain that type of special attention by asking for a one time session or part-time service (although I may be willing to give you a good ass fucking with my strap-on if I think you deserve it). To apply for a position with me, you must choose and sign a contract, complete training assignments and respond appropriately to the screening letters and forms I send to you. If you cannot read, write or clearly understand English - don't bother wasting my time. If you have difficulty following written and verbal instructions, again - don't bother. If you are married, DON'T BOTHER. If you are single and you SINCERELY want to serve me, show me you have something to offer other than your useless dick. Sadly, thousands before you have wasted my time. They promised their sincerity then missed their interview, or wrote dozens of emails then flaked out, etc. - in other words, they wasted my time and I DON'T LIKE THAT! Due to their insincerity and my time be wasted by them, all online or email applicants have to contact me via Nite Flirt (or alternative) phone calls first and complete all steps to prove they are sincere. You will have to chat with me dozens of times to gain my attention and prove your sincerity. You will have to court me. You will have to show me you are totally 100% submissive. You will have to shine above the rest - above the other hundreds of insincere, pathetic, lifeless, losers who are competing for my attention. You will have to wine and dine me via phone and small gifts or cards or letters, and give me an abundance of your time, before I will even consider you. It doesn't cost you anymore than it would to date me and get to know me. I've even set up a special, inexpensive Chat Only line for this. If you feel that is too much for you to do before you meet me or serve me, then you ARE NOT a slave, you are self-serving and need to look elsewhere. You will have to show me you really want me and my lifestyle, and if what I ask is too much, then you don't want me or the lifestyle. Besides, your best alternative is to call me and chat, ask questions, and find out whether you truly have the sincerity and drive to really serve me. I also recommend you contact me and order the e-book "Can I be a slave?" This little booklet tells you what serving a Mistress is like. The calls and booklet are much cheaper than meeting and wasting both our time, plus they will help you decide whether you really want to serve or whether it is just a fantasy that will never happen.

RE: Nite Flirt
Yes, it's a nightmare. At this time, Nite Flirt can only be accessed via web through the Beta Site. You can connect with me through this Beta Site link:
http://beta.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila .
To make a call you must click on the Call Button in the first section of the page, under the yellow "During transition - USE THIS BUTTON TO CALL ME." Then Nite Flirt will call you back and make the connection. Keep in mind, this is a Beta Site, for temporary use until all the bugs are worked out. Sometimes the site is down to test upgrades, and the call button doesn't work for a hour or so. Don't worry, it does eventually work again in the same day or night. So, just keep trying your call periodically until you get through. And, as far as we can tell, the payment buttons for items still work most of time. Should you have any problems with them, just contact for a direct emailing of your items.

RE: Other ways to contact me and also be updated
If you'd like to learn more about me, here are some FREE links that have FREE photos of me, nasty stories, slave training information, guided masturbation aids, Mistress blogs, and more:
(1) My blog - http://www.mistresslila.blogspot.com/
(2) My Yahoo Group - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mistresslila/

(3) And you can become part of my Twitter Slaves at http://twitter.com/Mistress_Lila
(4) Nite Flirt Beta Site - http://beta.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila temporarily because it is a beta site for upgrades to the old site -- after upgrades are completed then it's back to www.niteflirt.com/mistress+lila
(5) I also have a FREE Kinky Catalog, just for asking - sent via email as a pdf file, full of nasty photos, kinky selections, masturbation aids, trance aids, and more.
(6) And, my direct contacts include two emails: ladylila@sbcglobal.net and ladylila2006@yahoo.com and my messenger ID is ladylila2006

RE: More About Nite Flirt and Alternatives
If you have consistent problems calling through the Nite Flirt Beta Site, just email me or messenger me (ladylila2006), and I can make other payment arrangements and give you a personal phone number in the meantime.

There have been many guesses and potential reasons for Nite Flirt being down, but most of us think Nite Flirt lost its software agreement for the platform (the web site design and use of it) and had to build another one from scratch; as well as replace their merchant services for processing credit cards with another one. It's likely, the rebuild of the site software was much more intensive than they thought, and they are having difficulty getting it done. First they said it would take 4 hours, then 12 hours, then one week, and now it looks like it may take several weeks or longer. But in the meantime, Nite Flirt has provided the Beta Site (link above) to use while the main site is being renewed and completed. The Beta Site works the same as the original site worked. Nite Flirt has completed a lot of different sections like: Call Buttons, some Listings, page transfers, money issues, etc. There is more left to be done. If you read the Nite Flirt forum posts you will see what those problems are and when they are corrected.

But you can still call and everything, the issues mainly effect your flirt not you. However, some customers are having difficulty adding funds to their accounts. Also, sometimes, when they are working on a specific problem, they shut down call access for a few hours. In these cases, just keep trying. If you have any specific questions, don't hesitate to ask and I'll try to get you an answer, or set up another arrangement for you.

RE: My New Great Alternative for Callers Coming Soon
I'm also making sure I have an alternative to Nite Flirt, ready and available for all my customers within the next couple weeks to cover problems like this (but Nite Flirt will still be my main access). It's just smart business to have an alternative these days with so many businesses closing. This alternative site will accept only Amazon.com Gift Cards as payment. On the alternative site, there is going to be a provision where you can make phone sex calls and acquire e-books through Amazon.com Gift Cards. Imagine the possibilities. No more worry about the wife/girlfriend finding your credit card statement with phone sex changes. All she sees is an Amazon.com purchase, not details, just an amount at a legitimate store. You may have purchased office supplies, or gift basket for a co-worker, flowers for a funeral or baby shower - all the statement will show is the total you spent and no details, so any story about the purchase can be your own and is not available for discussion. Plausible deniability! Wow!


I hope this answered all your questions.

Mistress Lila

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